Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Lonely on Christmas and New Years

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Lonely on Christmas and New Years and no money to travel.

Lonely, Depressed, and Broke.
If only I had money to go overseas again, so that I don't have to be so lonely here. As of now I have absolutely no plans for new years, just like every year.

Latest Field Report:

There was this ugly Indian old woman, who rejected me, and I ended up paying the tab for her drinks. What the hell do you do when the b*tch doesn't reach for the bill? I ended up having to do it. No effort at all, B1tch Now i want my $20 back, but I will never get it back. If anyone feels sorry for me plz give me $20 as I have nothing this new years.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PokerStar

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i hear you bro. my moms and sister will be heading out of town so i will be spending xmas by myself. so i decided to have an xmas party. having all my firends come by and party it up xmas evening. itll be a pretty good shin dig.

as for new years? well since its my first time in my new apartment i think im going to have a new years jam at my place. im not into going to clubs, waiting inline for a drink and paying 50 bux to get in.
 

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Quit tricken. and quit revolving your world around girls. Revolve it around making yourself better and doing things you enjoy such as sports.
 
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I hear you man. I'm in the same boat.

Try to stay positive. Maybe go to the gym New Years Eve afternoon to get your endorphins up. Don't drink too much that night. Don't listen to sad music. If you are home alone watch the ball drop on CNN, make a resolution and goto sleep. Wake up in the morning without a hangover and look at January 1 as a new beginning with new opportunities.
 

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Bud_Fox said:
I hear you man. I'm in the same boat.

Try to stay positive. Maybe go to the gym New Years Eve afternoon to get your endorphins up. Don't drink too much that night. Don't listen to sad music. If you are home alone watch the ball drop on CNN, make a resolution and goto sleep. Wake up in the morning without a hangover and look at January 1 as a new beginning with new opportunities.
Everyone should probably try to have one of these more grounded NYEs to reflect and prepare for the upcoming year. Having said that, I'm not sure what I'm doing but I will definitely be looking to get my d1ck wet. hahaha
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Am I the only one happy to be alone on Christmas and New Years? I think it's fantastic. I get a week off from work. Probably workout everyday, sleep in and go to the beach.
 

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Yeah same. Life is about not getting high with the highs and low with the lows.
What makes Christmas different then any other day? Because the corporate system
says to over buy and overeat? Treat everyday like its special not just a few holidays in the year and you will have life to celebrate.
 
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