Lonely at the top?

[L777]

That title sounds really big-headed. In terms of the seduction community I'm just average, but in terms or reglar people, and people I know in real life, I'm way above average in terms of picking up women.

What I'm noticing lately is a slight distancing from my friends. Not in a bad way, just in sense that , for example, when we go out clubbing, I'll be like, "lets go get into some birds" (sarge some chicks) and then go off and sarge, and they'll just be like, "no". Same thing when I'm out with a mate at the pool hall or shopping centre, I'll do a little sarging, expecting them to wing or at least help out, but they just won't.

As a result of this I've started hanging out with them slightly less, and its something I'm doing out of choice. It would be cool to find some other aspiring DJs or PUAs though, its a bit s.hit when your friends are all even AFCs...same thing with my friends back home (I'm at uni), even the ones I thought were f.uckin pimps are actually just well disguised AFCs.

Anyone else find this kind of s.hit happening?

 

[NorPacWolf]

Recommendation: make new friends.

 

[L777]

Recommendation: make new friends.

Yea but isn't that easy is it. I mean, ppl are a LOT more reserved over here, I'd say like 99.5% of guys I know here are stone-wall AFC, I know ONE semi-natural, seriously, my friends are like, some of the cooler guys on campus...I wasn't really after advice tbh, just seeing if anyone else experienced the same sorta thing.

 

[NorPacWolf]

Sounds like it'll take more time than you'd like to make new friends. Invest in the time, or stay with your old friends, or spend time alone. It's not that complicated.

Look at it as an opportunity to make new friends, rather than as the loss of old friends.

Yea but isn't that easy is it. I mean, ppl are a LOT more reserved over here, I'd say like 99.5% of guys I know here are stone-wall AFC, I know ONE semi-natural, seriously, my friends are like, some of the cooler guys on campus...I wasn't really after advice tbh, just seeing if anyone else experienced the same sorta thing.

 

[PRMoon]

If there's a high concentration of AFC's in your area, then you should concentrate on your solo game. Hang out with your guy friends and do whatever it is that entertains you with them, but also realize if you want to improve your game and get more girls then people like that are going to hold you back from realizing your potential.

Hell if the population is really that chumpish, then you should do well and dominate your area. Maybe you can start a trend and they'll kick it into gear and want to know what you know. I know if I was an AFC and I saw just one dude out of the whole town pulling all the hot girls i'd sure as hell want to step it up.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

Its much easier to sarge alone I must say, but if you think its lonely at the top, just think about this, its a hell of a lot fvcking lonelier at the bottom, sad but true. :yes:

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...Anyone else find this kind of s.hit happening?

Cream rises to the top.