"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lonely at the top?

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That title sounds really big-headed. In terms of the seduction community I'm just average, but in terms or reglar people, and people I know in real life, I'm way above average in terms of picking up women.

What I'm noticing lately is a slight distancing from my friends. Not in a bad way, just in sense that , for example, when we go out clubbing, I'll be like, "lets go get into some birds" (sarge some chicks) and then go off and sarge, and they'll just be like, "no". Same thing when I'm out with a mate at the pool hall or shopping centre, I'll do a little sarging, expecting them to wing or at least help out, but they just won't.

As a result of this I've started hanging out with them slightly less, and its something I'm doing out of choice. It would be cool to find some other aspiring DJs or PUAs though, its a bit s.hit when your friends are all even AFCs...same thing with my friends back home (I'm at uni), even the ones I thought were f.uckin pimps are actually just well disguised AFCs.

Anyone else find this kind of s.hit happening?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Recommendation: make new friends.
 
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NorPacWolf said:
Recommendation: make new friends.
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Yea but isn't that easy is it. I mean, ppl are a LOT more reserved over here, I'd say like 99.5% of guys I know here are stone-wall AFC, I know ONE semi-natural, seriously, my friends are like, some of the cooler guys on campus...I wasn't really after advice tbh, just seeing if anyone else experienced the same sorta thing.
 
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Sounds like it'll take more time than you'd like to make new friends. Invest in the time, or stay with your old friends, or spend time alone. It's not that complicated.

Look at it as an opportunity to make new friends, rather than as the loss of old friends.

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Yea but isn't that easy is it. I mean, ppl are a LOT more reserved over here, I'd say like 99.5% of guys I know here are stone-wall AFC, I know ONE semi-natural, seriously, my friends are like, some of the cooler guys on campus...I wasn't really after advice tbh, just seeing if anyone else experienced the same sorta thing.
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If there's a high concentration of AFC's in your area, then you should concentrate on your solo game. Hang out with your guy friends and do whatever it is that entertains you with them, but also realize if you want to improve your game and get more girls then people like that are going to hold you back from realizing your potential.

Hell if the population is really that chumpish, then you should do well and dominate your area. Maybe you can start a trend and they'll kick it into gear and want to know what you know. I know if I was an AFC and I saw just one dude out of the whole town pulling all the hot girls i'd sure as hell want to step it up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Its much easier to sarge alone I must say, but if you think its lonely at the top, just think about this, its a hell of a lot fvcking lonelier at the bottom, sad but true. :yes:
 
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