"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jhonny9546

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Have you ever thought that a woman can choose to stay alone most of the time, like not going out in the evening?

Or is that just a thing for men?

There are times when you talk to girls, and from what they say, you understand that they lead a solitary lifestyle. Therefore, the first boy who dates her repeatedly might be the one she eventually falls in love with.

Of course this is not the case for any women out there, but it can be! (Expecially after 25's)

What's your experience with this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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holidayad_

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Most men are lonely on a daily basis. It's not a matter of choice. It's just the way life is.

Women can choose ofc. They are free. However, for the most part, they have a range of options available to entertain them.

To be honest, few women I know lead a solitary lifestyle. Unlike men, who need time to themselves, women love to socialize and I'm sure they would do it 24/7 if they could.
 
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Huh?

What kind of nonsensical question is this?

Of course they can choose not to and many do. There are a good portion of women who almost never go out and sit around the house just like there are plenty of guys who do that. Women typically have a bigger social network of other women friends but that doesn't mean they always are out with them.

Why do people always act like everything is soooooo different with women? They are human beings, just like men are, and shockingly just like some other human beings who happen to be men don't like going out a lot, so do some human beings who happen to be women.

There is a stereotype of a "cat Lady" for a reason.

I mean what's next...are we going to ask if some women play video games, or go hunting or work construction or go to strip clubs or lift weights?

The answer is obvious. Of course there are.
 
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