"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jhonny9546

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Have you ever thought that a woman can choose to stay alone most of the time, like not going out in the evening?

Or is that just a thing for men?

There are times when you talk to girls, and from what they say, you understand that they lead a solitary lifestyle. Therefore, the first boy who dates her repeatedly might be the one she eventually falls in love with.

Of course this is not the case for any women out there, but it can be! (Expecially after 25's)

What's your experience with this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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holidayad_

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Most men are lonely on a daily basis. It's not a matter of choice. It's just the way life is.

Women can choose ofc. They are free. However, for the most part, they have a range of options available to entertain them.

To be honest, few women I know lead a solitary lifestyle. Unlike men, who need time to themselves, women love to socialize and I'm sure they would do it 24/7 if they could.
 
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Huh?

What kind of nonsensical question is this?

Of course they can choose not to and many do. There are a good portion of women who almost never go out and sit around the house just like there are plenty of guys who do that. Women typically have a bigger social network of other women friends but that doesn't mean they always are out with them.

Why do people always act like everything is soooooo different with women? They are human beings, just like men are, and shockingly just like some other human beings who happen to be men don't like going out a lot, so do some human beings who happen to be women.

There is a stereotype of a "cat Lady" for a reason.

I mean what's next...are we going to ask if some women play video games, or go hunting or work construction or go to strip clubs or lift weights?

The answer is obvious. Of course there are.
 
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