"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lone Wolfs

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I'm one of them I've always traveled on my own, I'm very much an introvert I don't like being around crowds I do things on my own.

In my younger years I never went to parties, when I was in high school I was focused on what I wanted to do for a career. Out of high school I started learning as much as I could, I put learning and working over trying to find women to bang. I've had women in my life nothing really serious its that way today 22 years later since I left high school. Worked in the construction industry then at the age of 26 I took an office job which turned into hell, I was at the job for a little over a decade. I got involved with a girl I worked with who ended up being a BPD. My health really started to decline I wasn't the fit and healthy guy anymore I was 60 pounds over weight I had stress through the roof. At the age of 37 I started getting my health back I knew I was in trouble. The BPD and I had a final blow out in 2014 we went our separate ways late 2014 I walked away from my job.

The start of 2015 I focused on getting my life back in track, recovering from job burn out and recovering from being with a BPD. Its now the end of 2016 I've fully recovered I have a healthy and fairly fit body I've rolled the clock back 10 years. Women doubt my age they think I'm in my early 30s they are shocked when I say I'm 40.

This leads me to a problem the selection of women out there in my age range is next to nothing no way in hell I'm getting involved with single moms. The guys I grew up with they are married or divorced they look like they've been run through the ringer. I can't be going after late 20 year old women the age difference...... That's all what's out there that haven't been around the block 1000 times or have so many red flags that make you want to run.

Being a lone wolf has fvcked me in a way but I look at my buddies that got married early they are in the daily routine. I'm ready to get back into things I've restarted my life at 40 which is a little scary.

I find it funny the women that are close to my age or older flirt with me thinking they are flirting with a young guy. They are a little puzzled when they realize I'm mature, I don't dress like the younger generation and I don't talk like them. The younger women flirt too but fvck me ya I'm a little too old for you.

What do guys in their 40s do? I don't have any problem getting attention from women. Glad I'm a broad shouldered guy that packs some muscle I've gotten some angry jealous boyfriends looking for a fight when their girlfriend was eying me up. The boyfriends back off when they see a guy with hands size of baseball mitts lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've always been a lone wolf.

I get to know everyone wherever I go so I don't need to bring friends with me.

At age 41 I dated a 19 year old girl (2.5 years). At age 44 I dated a 21 year old girl (1.5 years). At age 45 I dated a 21 year old (.5 years). At age 46, I'm dating another 21 year old girl (1 year). I take them exclusively on dates to the finest restaurants and hotels and always have.

Stay in shape, dress sharp, work hard, be generous, eat right and hire a physical trainer like I did.
 

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I've always been a lone wolf.

I get to know everyone wherever I go so I don't need to bring friends with me.

At age 41 I dated a 19 year old girl (2.5 years). At age 44 I dated a 21 year old girl (1.5 years). At age 45 I dated a 21 year old (.5 years). At age 46, I'm dating another 21 year old girl (1 year). I take them exclusively on dates to the finest restaurants and hotels and always have.

Stay in shape, dress sharp, work hard, be generous, eat right and hire a physical trainer like I did.
That's what I like to hear.

I have no intention of dating/f*cking older women as I get older. I intend to stick with women in their 20's as long as possible. Women fresh out of the oven are the best women. Their femininity, lack of baggage, hot, tight, sexy bodies. You can't beat that.
 

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That's what I like to hear.

I have no intention of dating/f*cking older women as I get older. I intend to stick with women in their 20's as long as possible. Women fresh out of the oven are the best women. Their femininity, lack of baggage, hot, tight, sexy bodies. You can't beat that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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