"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lone Wolfs

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I'm one of them I've always traveled on my own, I'm very much an introvert I don't like being around crowds I do things on my own.

In my younger years I never went to parties, when I was in high school I was focused on what I wanted to do for a career. Out of high school I started learning as much as I could, I put learning and working over trying to find women to bang. I've had women in my life nothing really serious its that way today 22 years later since I left high school. Worked in the construction industry then at the age of 26 I took an office job which turned into hell, I was at the job for a little over a decade. I got involved with a girl I worked with who ended up being a BPD. My health really started to decline I wasn't the fit and healthy guy anymore I was 60 pounds over weight I had stress through the roof. At the age of 37 I started getting my health back I knew I was in trouble. The BPD and I had a final blow out in 2014 we went our separate ways late 2014 I walked away from my job.

The start of 2015 I focused on getting my life back in track, recovering from job burn out and recovering from being with a BPD. Its now the end of 2016 I've fully recovered I have a healthy and fairly fit body I've rolled the clock back 10 years. Women doubt my age they think I'm in my early 30s they are shocked when I say I'm 40.

This leads me to a problem the selection of women out there in my age range is next to nothing no way in hell I'm getting involved with single moms. The guys I grew up with they are married or divorced they look like they've been run through the ringer. I can't be going after late 20 year old women the age difference...... That's all what's out there that haven't been around the block 1000 times or have so many red flags that make you want to run.

Being a lone wolf has fvcked me in a way but I look at my buddies that got married early they are in the daily routine. I'm ready to get back into things I've restarted my life at 40 which is a little scary.

I find it funny the women that are close to my age or older flirt with me thinking they are flirting with a young guy. They are a little puzzled when they realize I'm mature, I don't dress like the younger generation and I don't talk like them. The younger women flirt too but fvck me ya I'm a little too old for you.

What do guys in their 40s do? I don't have any problem getting attention from women. Glad I'm a broad shouldered guy that packs some muscle I've gotten some angry jealous boyfriends looking for a fight when their girlfriend was eying me up. The boyfriends back off when they see a guy with hands size of baseball mitts lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've always been a lone wolf.

I get to know everyone wherever I go so I don't need to bring friends with me.

At age 41 I dated a 19 year old girl (2.5 years). At age 44 I dated a 21 year old girl (1.5 years). At age 45 I dated a 21 year old (.5 years). At age 46, I'm dating another 21 year old girl (1 year). I take them exclusively on dates to the finest restaurants and hotels and always have.

Stay in shape, dress sharp, work hard, be generous, eat right and hire a physical trainer like I did.
 

Poon King

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I've always been a lone wolf.

I get to know everyone wherever I go so I don't need to bring friends with me.

At age 41 I dated a 19 year old girl (2.5 years). At age 44 I dated a 21 year old girl (1.5 years). At age 45 I dated a 21 year old (.5 years). At age 46, I'm dating another 21 year old girl (1 year). I take them exclusively on dates to the finest restaurants and hotels and always have.

Stay in shape, dress sharp, work hard, be generous, eat right and hire a physical trainer like I did.
That's what I like to hear.

I have no intention of dating/f*cking older women as I get older. I intend to stick with women in their 20's as long as possible. Women fresh out of the oven are the best women. Their femininity, lack of baggage, hot, tight, sexy bodies. You can't beat that.
 

LittleBigOne

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That's what I like to hear.

I have no intention of dating/f*cking older women as I get older. I intend to stick with women in their 20's as long as possible. Women fresh out of the oven are the best women. Their femininity, lack of baggage, hot, tight, sexy bodies. You can't beat that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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