"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There seems to be a certain frame of mind that girls in London aqcuire, anyone care to discuss this issue?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"If you wanna be my lover, you gotta' get with my friends!"

Sorry... couldn't resist.

Could you expand, with examples?
 
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They are like the girls in most other major cities.

I've just come back from living in Sydney, and they are the same.

Almost totally inaccesable. Basically, they call the shots, sort of thing...
 
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I find that anyone south of Watford Gap is pretty unfriendly myself...it's a different world down there.

I've walked around London at 8.30 am before and I didn't get one smile. Do it in the North or Midlands, and plenty of people do.

Heck, everyones in such a rush too. Perhaps thats why they're unfriendly - they're busier than everyone else.

Drive to Wales or something, I've heard that Welsh birds are well dirty.
 
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Originally posted by aftershock


Drive to Wales or something, I've heard that Welsh birds are well dirty.
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haha, i heard that as well.

and from experience, i tend to agree!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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