"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Casual

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There seems to be a certain frame of mind that girls in London aqcuire, anyone care to discuss this issue?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CobaltBlue

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"If you wanna be my lover, you gotta' get with my friends!"

Sorry... couldn't resist.

Could you expand, with examples?
 

Nicos

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They are like the girls in most other major cities.

I've just come back from living in Sydney, and they are the same.

Almost totally inaccesable. Basically, they call the shots, sort of thing...
 

aftershock

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I find that anyone south of Watford Gap is pretty unfriendly myself...it's a different world down there.

I've walked around London at 8.30 am before and I didn't get one smile. Do it in the North or Midlands, and plenty of people do.

Heck, everyones in such a rush too. Perhaps thats why they're unfriendly - they're busier than everyone else.

Drive to Wales or something, I've heard that Welsh birds are well dirty.
 

Not Quite There

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Originally posted by aftershock


Drive to Wales or something, I've heard that Welsh birds are well dirty.
haha, i heard that as well.

and from experience, i tend to agree!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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