She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Alextheegreat said:And this is the part where you nod your head, don't listen to her, and think who is the next ho I will ****? haha
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just a Shot Away said:Just curious Don...did you lie about your age to this chick or avoid the issue or what? Up until recently I was in a position to bang an 18 year old that was in a class of mine last semester (think she's lost interest now) and I'm 28. She asked me how old I was one time through text to which I replied "I'm in my twenties" because I thought it might be a deal-breaker.
Curious how you handled that.
... Does not compute.virgin ho
SmoothTalker said:... Does not compute.
So you cleared up the ho part. What about the "virgin" part?DonGorgon said:thats what makes atlanta different from other places..lol yes there are virgin hos out here... most females in this city are hos.. She let me F her then said she jis meeting alot of men here and does not want a relationship..lol she just wanted to start Fing as soon as possible...lol
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Exhumed said:She could still give a lot of *******s/handjobs and make out with everything that moves and still be a virgin...also I think DonGorgon is just using the word "ho" in place of "girl" hahah