I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Alextheegreat said:And this is the part where you nod your head, don't listen to her, and think who is the next ho I will ****? haha
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Just a Shot Away said:Just curious Don...did you lie about your age to this chick or avoid the issue or what? Up until recently I was in a position to bang an 18 year old that was in a class of mine last semester (think she's lost interest now) and I'm 28. She asked me how old I was one time through text to which I replied "I'm in my twenties" because I thought it might be a deal-breaker.
Curious how you handled that.
... Does not compute.virgin ho
SmoothTalker said:... Does not compute.
So you cleared up the ho part. What about the "virgin" part?DonGorgon said:thats what makes atlanta different from other places..lol yes there are virgin hos out here... most females in this city are hos.. She let me F her then said she jis meeting alot of men here and does not want a relationship..lol she just wanted to start Fing as soon as possible...lol
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Exhumed said:She could still give a lot of *******s/handjobs and make out with everything that moves and still be a virgin...also I think DonGorgon is just using the word "ho" in place of "girl" hahah