"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LOL, What is right to do when a friend ( ladies) is interrupting your conversation?

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LOL, What is right to do/say when a friend ( ladies) is interrupting your conversation with another girl?

(Is it wise to have the girl there for a wile to bulid competition between the 2 girls , ore is it right to just trying to get here away as soon as possible?)
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kingman said:
LOL, What is right to do/say when a friend ( ladies) is interrupting your conversation with another girl?

(Is it wise to have the girl there for a wile to bulid competition between the 2 girls , ore is it right to just trying to get here away as soon as possible?)
if she wants to be a part of the convo, do not exclude her, bring her in, talk to all the people in your group. If she is rolling off, let her go.
 

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daygameguy said:
if she wants to be a part of the convo, do not exclude her, bring her in, talk to all the people in your group. If she is rolling off, let her go.
Lol.. That was almost exactly what I did......... She rolled off after a while and after that I talked to my target for a while and we exchanged numbers and I had to go. ( I think my friend helped me on that one, because I could see my targets interest in me was increased after my friend left )

I don`t no what my friend will think of me now, lol. But that is her problem. Before when I was an AFC she was just a little interested in me ( friend zone probably) , but today she is really into me..
 
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Dude I have my wingwoman do this on purpose for me. Trust me it helps it makes the other girl want you more.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I will let it slide only if the girl that interrups me is semi-attractive/attractive so my initial target can see my social proof/possible competition for my attention.

If she is unattractive, I would smile answer her back and go back to my original target. She will then probably get the hint and leave.

If it is a male friend, it goes without saying that he should know better.
 
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