"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LOL, What is right to do when a friend ( ladies) is interrupting your conversation?

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LOL, What is right to do/say when a friend ( ladies) is interrupting your conversation with another girl?

(Is it wise to have the girl there for a wile to bulid competition between the 2 girls , ore is it right to just trying to get here away as soon as possible?)
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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kingman said:
LOL, What is right to do/say when a friend ( ladies) is interrupting your conversation with another girl?

(Is it wise to have the girl there for a wile to bulid competition between the 2 girls , ore is it right to just trying to get here away as soon as possible?)
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if she wants to be a part of the convo, do not exclude her, bring her in, talk to all the people in your group. If she is rolling off, let her go.
 
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daygameguy said:
if she wants to be a part of the convo, do not exclude her, bring her in, talk to all the people in your group. If she is rolling off, let her go.
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Lol.. That was almost exactly what I did......... She rolled off after a while and after that I talked to my target for a while and we exchanged numbers and I had to go. ( I think my friend helped me on that one, because I could see my targets interest in me was increased after my friend left )

I don`t no what my friend will think of me now, lol. But that is her problem. Before when I was an AFC she was just a little interested in me ( friend zone probably) , but today she is really into me..
 
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Dude I have my wingwoman do this on purpose for me. Trust me it helps it makes the other girl want you more.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I will let it slide only if the girl that interrups me is semi-attractive/attractive so my initial target can see my social proof/possible competition for my attention.

If she is unattractive, I would smile answer her back and go back to my original target. She will then probably get the hint and leave.

If it is a male friend, it goes without saying that he should know better.
 
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