"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LOL, What is right to do when a friend ( ladies) is interrupting your conversation?

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LOL, What is right to do/say when a friend ( ladies) is interrupting your conversation with another girl?

(Is it wise to have the girl there for a wile to bulid competition between the 2 girls , ore is it right to just trying to get here away as soon as possible?)
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kingman said:
LOL, What is right to do/say when a friend ( ladies) is interrupting your conversation with another girl?

(Is it wise to have the girl there for a wile to bulid competition between the 2 girls , ore is it right to just trying to get here away as soon as possible?)
if she wants to be a part of the convo, do not exclude her, bring her in, talk to all the people in your group. If she is rolling off, let her go.
 

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daygameguy said:
if she wants to be a part of the convo, do not exclude her, bring her in, talk to all the people in your group. If she is rolling off, let her go.
Lol.. That was almost exactly what I did......... She rolled off after a while and after that I talked to my target for a while and we exchanged numbers and I had to go. ( I think my friend helped me on that one, because I could see my targets interest in me was increased after my friend left )

I don`t no what my friend will think of me now, lol. But that is her problem. Before when I was an AFC she was just a little interested in me ( friend zone probably) , but today she is really into me..
 
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Dude I have my wingwoman do this on purpose for me. Trust me it helps it makes the other girl want you more.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I will let it slide only if the girl that interrups me is semi-attractive/attractive so my initial target can see my social proof/possible competition for my attention.

If she is unattractive, I would smile answer her back and go back to my original target. She will then probably get the hint and leave.

If it is a male friend, it goes without saying that he should know better.
 
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