"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LOL my sisters....

escaleraroyal

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pdx1138 said:
ha ha yeah actually.

one could lose a few lbs but looks great for 30

the other looks great for 40 and is happily married to a millionaire. :)
not really interested girl older than 29...thanks though.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not once in my life have I ever had success trying to pull the relationship trigger. Every time it's her. She's got to be the one who wants it, seeks it, desires it, and you have to gladly take her under the wing.

I am not doubting for some men pursuing the relationship has worked ; but I would say MOST times it does not -- because if SHE is apprehensive, there is something WITHOLDING the flowing of her emotional closeness to you -- and that's bad!

pdx I would say let her come to you!
 

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agreed Buddha.

She's already met me whole family (they really like her) and she really likes them.
I've met both her brothers and her best friend. They like me.

I also introduced her to one of my relatives as my "girlfriend"

she can bring up the exclusive talk...I've done my part.
 
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