haha so i was in the mall parking lot with a friend and i was getting in his car when suddenly i hear "heyyyy!! come over here!" so i turn around and see this hb8 with her friend standing a few cars down. she then yells "whats your number!?" so i walk over with my friend, he thought she was talking to him, so he gives hre his number first, then i give her my numebr and ask her for hers in return. then i leave cuz we had to run somewhere. well anyways i forgot all about that (dont know how) and i found her name in my contact book today lol. it was last saturday when we saw her. is that too long to call her??? has she already forgotten about me and should i just move on to the next one???
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lol forgot i had this number...
- Thread starter hhlowin
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Yea, if you don't do it now, you will be waiting too long and she definitely won't remember. And you don't even know her so you've got nothing to lose.
TonyTheTigerOI
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I usually wait 10 days to call. I have waited 20 days and still gotten good results. ALWAYS call.
oakraiderz2
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What about umm....2-3 months??Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
I usually wait 10 days to call. I have waited 20 days and still gotten good results. ALWAYS call.