haha so i was in the mall parking lot with a friend and i was getting in his car when suddenly i hear "heyyyy!! come over here!" so i turn around and see this hb8 with her friend standing a few cars down. she then yells "whats your number!?" so i walk over with my friend, he thought she was talking to him, so he gives hre his number first, then i give her my numebr and ask her for hers in return. then i leave cuz we had to run somewhere. well anyways i forgot all about that (dont know how) and i found her name in my contact book today lol. it was last saturday when we saw her. is that too long to call her??? has she already forgotten about me and should i just move on to the next one???
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lol forgot i had this number...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
familyguyfan
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Yea, if you don't do it now, you will be waiting too long and she definitely won't remember. And you don't even know her so you've got nothing to lose.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
I usually wait 10 days to call. I have waited 20 days and still gotten good results. ALWAYS call.
oakraiderz2
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What about umm....2-3 months??Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
I usually wait 10 days to call. I have waited 20 days and still gotten good results. ALWAYS call.