"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol does this count as getting a number

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Okay, so me and this chick were doing some project. We were helping each other out since it was due the next day and niether of us started. So we were emailing each other, and it was getting hard to talk about the project because she wasn't able to use AIM. So I just emailed her to call my cell to talk about the project and she called like 5 minutes later. Then like an hour later, I called her back to talk about it again and she didn't answer and I noticed it went to her voice message which means she used her cell phone and I could tell her number was a cell phone number instead of her home phone. She immediately called like 10 seconds later after I called. Sooooooo, does this one count and I could call her to say wassup anytime or should I try asking her for it still?!?! btw tomorrow is our last day before winter break and then I won't see her until like next year!!
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Damian

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No, it doesn't. You may have gotten a number, but you failed to attract. It's just a logistical phone number because you HAVE TO work together. Attract her then ask her out and grab her number officially.

-Damian
 

CrazyAsianBiker

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Yeah damons right but she could still like you and that's th ereason she called so quick... but then again it's also because it's due the next day.

Damon basically summed it up though on what to do also.
 

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lol

dawg ur puzzy,u should have f*cked her,u got no game,hoes luv d*ck,trust me i know dis.
http://www.myspace.com/brazy_boi go give me hits
the only real pimps/players are blackguys&hispanic/latinoguys!
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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coolkid800

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Re: lol

Originally posted by mcpimp
dawg ur puzzy,u should have f*cked her,u got no game,hoes luv d*ck,trust me i know dis.
http://www.myspace.com/brazy_boi go give me hits
the only real pimps/players are blackguys&hispanic/latinoguys!
lol But I am hispanic/latino!

anyways, thanks for the advice, guys, I think I know what to do.

Edit: Oh yeah, the project was only a single project meaning we were supposed to do it by ourselves. So the day before it was do I asked her if she wanted to do it together where she'd do half and I'd do the other half and she said yeah and she knows shes got a better grade then me in the class. That has to count for something, doesn't it?!?1:D
 

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What the hell? Who cares whether it counts as "getting her number" or not, you have her number now and she knows it, so why would you later down the road try and "get it officially"? That would be dumb because you already have her number and she knows you do because she called you. Who cares how the hell you got it.

Now, understand that just because you have her number doesn't necessarily mean she likes you. But sure go ahead and call her to hang out over winter break.
 

j8snx1

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Gotta agree with familyguyfan here. You already have her #, so why waste your time trying to "officially" get it again?

If I were you, I'd try to attract and build rapport now that I already got the # thru a cheap and easy way =)
 
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