"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol does this count as getting a number

coolkid800

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Okay, so me and this chick were doing some project. We were helping each other out since it was due the next day and niether of us started. So we were emailing each other, and it was getting hard to talk about the project because she wasn't able to use AIM. So I just emailed her to call my cell to talk about the project and she called like 5 minutes later. Then like an hour later, I called her back to talk about it again and she didn't answer and I noticed it went to her voice message which means she used her cell phone and I could tell her number was a cell phone number instead of her home phone. She immediately called like 10 seconds later after I called. Sooooooo, does this one count and I could call her to say wassup anytime or should I try asking her for it still?!?! btw tomorrow is our last day before winter break and then I won't see her until like next year!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Damian

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No, it doesn't. You may have gotten a number, but you failed to attract. It's just a logistical phone number because you HAVE TO work together. Attract her then ask her out and grab her number officially.

-Damian
 

CrazyAsianBiker

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Yeah damons right but she could still like you and that's th ereason she called so quick... but then again it's also because it's due the next day.

Damon basically summed it up though on what to do also.
 

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lol

dawg ur puzzy,u should have f*cked her,u got no game,hoes luv d*ck,trust me i know dis.
http://www.myspace.com/brazy_boi go give me hits
the only real pimps/players are blackguys&hispanic/latinoguys!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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coolkid800

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Re: lol

Originally posted by mcpimp
dawg ur puzzy,u should have f*cked her,u got no game,hoes luv d*ck,trust me i know dis.
http://www.myspace.com/brazy_boi go give me hits
the only real pimps/players are blackguys&hispanic/latinoguys!
lol But I am hispanic/latino!

anyways, thanks for the advice, guys, I think I know what to do.

Edit: Oh yeah, the project was only a single project meaning we were supposed to do it by ourselves. So the day before it was do I asked her if she wanted to do it together where she'd do half and I'd do the other half and she said yeah and she knows shes got a better grade then me in the class. That has to count for something, doesn't it?!?1:D
 

familyguyfan

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What the hell? Who cares whether it counts as "getting her number" or not, you have her number now and she knows it, so why would you later down the road try and "get it officially"? That would be dumb because you already have her number and she knows you do because she called you. Who cares how the hell you got it.

Now, understand that just because you have her number doesn't necessarily mean she likes you. But sure go ahead and call her to hang out over winter break.
 

j8snx1

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Gotta agree with familyguyfan here. You already have her #, so why waste your time trying to "officially" get it again?

If I were you, I'd try to attract and build rapport now that I already got the # thru a cheap and easy way =)
 
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