"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Logistics Question

Enyce

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Hey everyone, this is sort of related to this question here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=161470

But you don't need to read it to answer my question. I'm thinking seriously about calling the girl up, but I need some confidence. This is my first time, you know.

So, that girl gave me massive amounts of hints that she wanted me. I couldnt see the true intention of most of them, and pussied out and did not escalate with her. Looking back there may have been like 10-15 really obvious ones in the one night I spent at her house doing a project ("my one rule is no one is allowed on my bed", "sex with my boyfriend is boring", blushing when I said i liked her, letting me when i was touching her back, and many others)

So clearly at one point she was interested in me, or is just veeeryy easy going. But I want to know, after giving me all these hints, and me completely *****ing out on the escalation, and giving her some very needy, pitiful text messages, do you think it is possible that she is still into me?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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fertileTurtle

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You're going to have a lot of nervous energy when you do this, so don't really try to fight it, just use it to be positive, fun, and covertly sexual.
 
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