"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Enyce

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Hey everyone, this is sort of related to this question here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=161470

But you don't need to read it to answer my question. I'm thinking seriously about calling the girl up, but I need some confidence. This is my first time, you know.

So, that girl gave me massive amounts of hints that she wanted me. I couldnt see the true intention of most of them, and pussied out and did not escalate with her. Looking back there may have been like 10-15 really obvious ones in the one night I spent at her house doing a project ("my one rule is no one is allowed on my bed", "sex with my boyfriend is boring", blushing when I said i liked her, letting me when i was touching her back, and many others)

So clearly at one point she was interested in me, or is just veeeryy easy going. But I want to know, after giving me all these hints, and me completely *****ing out on the escalation, and giving her some very needy, pitiful text messages, do you think it is possible that she is still into me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

fertileTurtle

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You're going to have a lot of nervous energy when you do this, so don't really try to fight it, just use it to be positive, fun, and covertly sexual.
 
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