Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Loads of sh*t tests! Did I handle them well?

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Got a load of sh*t tests off one of my plates that ive known for ages but only started dating. We were watching a reality TV show when someone in the show had just found out she'd been cheated on. The girl asks me if I had ever cheated, I went for a funny & ****y response. She then says she couldnt imagine me with a girlfriend.

Her: I'd hate to be cheated on, have you ever cheated? Trying to suss you out haha

Me: Yeah ive been cheating on all of them for ages

Her: all of who?

Me: All of my current girlfriends

Her: Such a joker. cant imagine you with a girlfriend. Itd be more of a harem.

Me: hahaha, was gunna ask you why not, but that makes sense!

Her: I dont know I just cant

Me: weird


Did I handle this well? Ive never cheated so I feel maybe I should have just said I hadnt as my response has left it open. Also I really wanna ask why she cant imagine me with a girlfriend! Maybe she thinks shes the one who can tame me (haha) or having a harem means she might think im a player?.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Not bad actually. Good deflection and agree and amplify. Keep it up!
 
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You failed the moment you sat down and watched a reality TV show with her. :kick: ;)
 
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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Harem sh1t test = good, sign of high il
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How is it a sign of high interest?

Greasy Pig said:
Not bad actually. Good deflection and agree and amplify. Keep it up!
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Ha thanks man, agree and amplify is exactly what I had in mind. Cant help thinking I didnt even need to do it as ive never cheated though!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you're talking about Made In Chelsea, I know what you mean. Watching that show with someone you're involved with is a minefield, the amount of cheating is ridiculous. I always agree and amplify with those sort of things, I play act and act like I'm on the cheaters side and treat them like a hero and basically tease the girl for getting upset about it.
 
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Mr Wright said:
If you're talking about Made In Chelsea, I know what you mean. Watching that show with someone you're involved with is a minefield, the amount of cheating is ridiculous. I always agree and amplify with those sort of things, I play act and act like I'm on the cheaters side and treat them like a hero and basically tease the girl for getting upset about it.
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haha yeah it was Made In Chelsea. Guess I didnt want her to figure me out either way. Cant give a woman that satisfaction. keeps her on her toes!
 
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