Sup guys,
I'm having some problems with LMR. For example with the last chick, we had a fun date drinking and chatting away. I biked with her home and she invited me in. So ofcourse I took that as an opportunity to escalate further. Lately girls are saying stuff like, "no, the pants stay" or "don't go in". I'm thinking they wanna trick me into a relationship and remain with some power, therefor don't wanna have sex. How can I overcome this? I can't escalate again after that, because I'm not the guy to pressure them into anything. Or should I try to anyway?
Try again when both aren't that tired? Is this really some powerplay or just a girl with morals not giving up after a couple of dates?
Any insight would be appreciated.
I'm having some problems with LMR. For example with the last chick, we had a fun date drinking and chatting away. I biked with her home and she invited me in. So ofcourse I took that as an opportunity to escalate further. Lately girls are saying stuff like, "no, the pants stay" or "don't go in". I'm thinking they wanna trick me into a relationship and remain with some power, therefor don't wanna have sex. How can I overcome this? I can't escalate again after that, because I'm not the guy to pressure them into anything. Or should I try to anyway?
Try again when both aren't that tired? Is this really some powerplay or just a girl with morals not giving up after a couple of dates?
Any insight would be appreciated.