So there's this girl that I've known for a long time (we went to the same elementary school). I've been interested in her for a while, but went on to other chicks because she sent me mixed signals. We've been dating for about a week, and saturday we went to go see Taken before chilling in my basement. We played pool for a while, and started taking pictures together until she had me against the wall and we were making out. I moved down kissing her neck and she seemed to enjoy it, and I even got her shirt off, but suddenly she was like 'I cant do this'. So I didn't push her and was like ok...things went suprisingly smooth after that though and we cuddled on the couch. Am I taking things too fast? Or maybe emotional baggage? Please help I'm pretty confused..:nervous:
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TheBucketOfTruth
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"I can't do this" followed by cuddling? I'm on the fence about this. Cuddling is a commodity like anything else, don't give it up to just anyone, haha.
If a girl said "I can't do this" to me, I'd ask some followup questions. I'd probably say "do what?" first. Did you say anything to her after she made this statement?
If a girl said "I can't do this" to me, I'd ask some followup questions. I'd probably say "do what?" first. Did you say anything to her after she made this statement?
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
I think it's a classy thing to say, but in terms of game I can't really comment. If I were to say this, though, I would take a mostly hands off approach afterward. If she isn't ready to take things further, then you shouldn't be laying around cuddling after making out IMO. You can still hang out, but if she doesn't want to get physical in the way you want, then just don't be physical at all. Don't give her the satisfaction of the affection if she decided to cut her performance short. It sounds like a **** move, but that's how these things go sometimes.kazz said:
Maybe someone else has some more in depth advice for this situation and last minute resistance in general.