"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So there's this girl that I've known for a long time (we went to the same elementary school). I've been interested in her for a while, but went on to other chicks because she sent me mixed signals. We've been dating for about a week, and saturday we went to go see Taken before chilling in my basement. We played pool for a while, and started taking pictures together until she had me against the wall and we were making out. I moved down kissing her neck and she seemed to enjoy it, and I even got her shirt off, but suddenly she was like 'I cant do this'. So I didn't push her and was like ok...things went suprisingly smooth after that though and we cuddled on the couch. Am I taking things too fast? Or maybe emotional baggage? Please help I'm pretty confused..:nervous:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"I can't do this" followed by cuddling? I'm on the fence about this. Cuddling is a commodity like anything else, don't give it up to just anyone, haha.

If a girl said "I can't do this" to me, I'd ask some followup questions. I'd probably say "do what?" first. Did you say anything to her after she made this statement?
 
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I pretty much said I won't push you to do anything you don't want to do. Was this ok...or too much of an AFC move?
 
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kazz said:
I pretty much said I won't push you to do anything you don't want to do. Was this ok...or too much of an AFC move?
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I think it's a classy thing to say, but in terms of game I can't really comment. If I were to say this, though, I would take a mostly hands off approach afterward. If she isn't ready to take things further, then you shouldn't be laying around cuddling after making out IMO. You can still hang out, but if she doesn't want to get physical in the way you want, then just don't be physical at all. Don't give her the satisfaction of the affection if she decided to cut her performance short. It sounds like a **** move, but that's how these things go sometimes.

Maybe someone else has some more in depth advice for this situation and last minute resistance in general.
 
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