"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LJBF, with a perplexing twist

goodfoot

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Am I the only one that thinks he should keep going? She said she still wants to hang out, so I think it would be best to go on another "date" and escalate as far as she will go. If she still trying to LJBF, you just tell her you have enough friends and then go NC.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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CarlitosWay

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hmmmm

goodfoot said:
Am I the only one that thinks he should keep going? She said she still wants to hang out, so I think it would be best to go on another "date" and escalate as far as she will go. If she still trying to LJBF, you just tell her you have enough friends and then go NC.
Seeing as she is attracted to him otherwise she wouldn't have gone out on two dates and made out with the guy.

I think Doc should just say **** it one night escalate her ass real hard (neck and earlobes, plus biting is my forte jajaja) get her panties wet, spank her ass like you mean it. In her mind she might be thinking "no no no"...but her body will say "yes yes yes" yet progress on pull them panties off munch her box out until she pulses with orgasmic euphoria and push it farther if you can ..

Then chill back and worse comes to worse you get a **** buddy.:)
 

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goodfoot said:
Am I the only one that thinks he should keep going? She said she still wants to hang out, so I think it would be best to go on another "date" and escalate as far as she will go. If she still trying to LJBF, you just tell her you have enough friends and then go NC.

exactly what I was thinking.

I'll keep you posted, im on day 2 of NC
 

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DJ's i have an update, not 2 minutes ago said HB texted me, " I miss chu. How you been? X"

thoughts and advice, schnell.
 

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Doc Freezy said:
alright then, sig bets for whoever thinks i cant root this slappa.

I could translate that for our Nth American cousins,but it is just too cringeworthy.

Doc, get a grip. She is toying with you, and she sent that text to test whether you are still dangling at the end of that long string.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SamMalone

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NO CONTACT. At least give it a week or two, man. If you respond to her now its over. If you see her anytime soon in person just say you've been busy and SLIGHTLY hint at seeing a new girl.
 

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i'll give it a couple of weeks,

then chuck her a C/f message or a basic opener? pretend like we never even knew each other before the text.

Until then i'll keep ya's posted on the NC, sounds riveting i know.

Off to buy a Ben Sherman suit, Ooroo pimps.
 

tsmith2334

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then chuck her a C/f message or a basic opener? pretend like we never even knew each other before the text.
C+ F is either going to work like a charm or fail miserably.

Be very careful.
 

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just received a text, "You dont talk to me anymore lol"

keeping in mind she sends superfluous lols in texts.

Reply or keep the NC chugging along?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kailex

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SamMalone said:
NO CONTACT. At least give it a week or two, man. If you respond to her now its over. If you see her anytime soon in person just say you've been busy and SLIGHTLY hint at seeing a new girl.
This... again.
 

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Keep NC. When she starts getting serious and really wanting an answer why, we'll tell you what to do next.
 

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also a chance (20%) i may see her tonight, cold shoulder or try and bring a girl in front of her?
 

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Just for those truly loyal DF supporters i have an update from tonight.

So i went out to the city tonight attend a few clubs* with my mates. We started at this one decent club but just had a dance and beer with the lads before we left at around 2 for this other club. At this other club, we'll name blue square for the purpose of the conversation, I started to get in a groove, gave the door ***** a giggle or 2, progressed to dancing with a few biddy's which was fun, killed this one girl with an opener (she goes 'i dont know you', i said 'we met', she asked where, and in the corniest yet driest tone i said "in your dreams". She ate that shiz up, but i digress.

So i see the girl in question, said hi at the start of the night, quick kiss and hug then i left before she could say a word, saw her a few times during the night and made sure not to give EC or even look and when possible danced with a girl or 2. she sends me a text, "Wow rude much", i dont respond, Then as im leaving i walk up to her and play some push/pull, i say "you alright for a lift home", she says yes as i expected and then she grabs my hand to stop me from leaving and asks why im ignoring her, I pry my hand away from her and advised i have to go. Then as im leaving her friend next to her says "is that the one?"

Sorry about the length fellas, felt i should give the full down low though.

*Australian clubs are not similar to American clubs at all, dont think of Akon and grinding, think more crookers/bloody beetroots and melbourne shuffling
 
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