"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LJBF girl who gets jealous

ElCubanito13

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hello fellas im a newbie and i will like to say....
THANKS!!!!
this site and the people in it really help from being the nice guy/AFC to
a RAFC or half Don Juan if you prefer.. i am doing way better with chicks and life general so much THANKS

anyway, now to the subject at hand...there is this girl who has got me going crazy since last year (lol i was such an afc) i think she had some interest in me since i got her phone number in the 2nd day of class....well she lost it (i think) and she LJBF me... so i got a gf and she super jealous...but well i didn't do sh&t and now new year and she seem a lil interested but i am talking to other chicks but she doesn't know it....oh and yeah she has a bf who is 2 grades above us...

i just wanna hear ur's takes on this, fellas if u need/want anymore info fell free to contact me with a reply or pm....

oh and yea i am probably the youngest member on this site..im 13 and in the 8th grade in middle school..(so where do i post :confused: lol)

ElCuban is out
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Since it's easy for an older kid to look cooler than you[car,job,money,muscles,knowlege about life etc.], it will be tough to pull it off. Date other girls. If she gets jealous,let her know you aren't waiting around for her[and don't be],we are"just friends"-you have no reason to be jealous unless you are dating me.
 

ElCubanito13

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thank you, i was thinking the same thing right now im taking to like 3 HB8 who show some signs of interest..and thanks for the reply...anybody want to add on to that or say any other advice
 
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