"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LJBF girl who gets jealous

ElCubanito13

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hello fellas im a newbie and i will like to say....
THANKS!!!!
this site and the people in it really help from being the nice guy/AFC to
a RAFC or half Don Juan if you prefer.. i am doing way better with chicks and life general so much THANKS

anyway, now to the subject at hand...there is this girl who has got me going crazy since last year (lol i was such an afc) i think she had some interest in me since i got her phone number in the 2nd day of class....well she lost it (i think) and she LJBF me... so i got a gf and she super jealous...but well i didn't do sh&t and now new year and she seem a lil interested but i am talking to other chicks but she doesn't know it....oh and yeah she has a bf who is 2 grades above us...

i just wanna hear ur's takes on this, fellas if u need/want anymore info fell free to contact me with a reply or pm....

oh and yea i am probably the youngest member on this site..im 13 and in the 8th grade in middle school..(so where do i post :confused: lol)

ElCuban is out
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Since it's easy for an older kid to look cooler than you[car,job,money,muscles,knowlege about life etc.], it will be tough to pull it off. Date other girls. If she gets jealous,let her know you aren't waiting around for her[and don't be],we are"just friends"-you have no reason to be jealous unless you are dating me.
 

ElCubanito13

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thank you, i was thinking the same thing right now im taking to like 3 HB8 who show some signs of interest..and thanks for the reply...anybody want to add on to that or say any other advice
 
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