"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LJBF girl who gets jealous

ElCubanito13

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hello fellas im a newbie and i will like to say....
THANKS!!!!
this site and the people in it really help from being the nice guy/AFC to
a RAFC or half Don Juan if you prefer.. i am doing way better with chicks and life general so much THANKS

anyway, now to the subject at hand...there is this girl who has got me going crazy since last year (lol i was such an afc) i think she had some interest in me since i got her phone number in the 2nd day of class....well she lost it (i think) and she LJBF me... so i got a gf and she super jealous...but well i didn't do sh&t and now new year and she seem a lil interested but i am talking to other chicks but she doesn't know it....oh and yeah she has a bf who is 2 grades above us...

i just wanna hear ur's takes on this, fellas if u need/want anymore info fell free to contact me with a reply or pm....

oh and yea i am probably the youngest member on this site..im 13 and in the 8th grade in middle school..(so where do i post :confused: lol)

ElCuban is out
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Since it's easy for an older kid to look cooler than you[car,job,money,muscles,knowlege about life etc.], it will be tough to pull it off. Date other girls. If she gets jealous,let her know you aren't waiting around for her[and don't be],we are"just friends"-you have no reason to be jealous unless you are dating me.
 

ElCubanito13

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thank you, i was thinking the same thing right now im taking to like 3 HB8 who show some signs of interest..and thanks for the reply...anybody want to add on to that or say any other advice
 
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