"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LJBF - Even with constant IOIs

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It seems that an hB8 that I have been gaming for the last few weeks wants to pull the "LJBF" card (not directly, but i see her trying to get with other guys) and i need to know what to do from here.

I have a few options.

a) Accept her "friendship" and hope she introduces me to other HBs
b) Blow her off completely
c) Try one more time to physically escalate, if IOIs are still visible.

The only problem for me is that since it is high school, if i make her mad, it could possibly hurt my chances with other (and hotter) HBs.

What can we do to lose the reputation of "Just my friend" or "Oh...he's like a brother to me"

I seem to be getting this general reputation even though I am continually getting IOIs and it is really frustrating me.

Still a virgin :(....yet all my friends aren't.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Unless she tells you, don't stop. You can't be blamed for being a guy and being attracted to a girl, so unless she tells you, you didn't know, am I right?

If she LJBFs you then either ..

Blow her off saying, "No thanks, I have enough friends."

or

"Duh, we're just friends!" then have her get her friends to meet you etc
 
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faiNt` said:
Unless she tells you, don't stop. You can't be blamed for being a guy and being attracted to a girl, so unless she tells you, you didn't know, am I right?

If she LJBFs you then either ..

Blow her off saying, "No thanks, I have enough friends."

or

"Duh, we're just friends!" then have her get her friends to meet you etc
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Alright, sounds like a good plan.

We'll see if we can't physically escalate with some kino routines (which i have been lacking) and if that doesn't work out im gonna straight up ask her to introduce me to her friends. :)
 
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