"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LJBF - Even with constant IOIs

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jdawgmcb

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It seems that an hB8 that I have been gaming for the last few weeks wants to pull the "LJBF" card (not directly, but i see her trying to get with other guys) and i need to know what to do from here.

I have a few options.

a) Accept her "friendship" and hope she introduces me to other HBs
b) Blow her off completely
c) Try one more time to physically escalate, if IOIs are still visible.

The only problem for me is that since it is high school, if i make her mad, it could possibly hurt my chances with other (and hotter) HBs.

What can we do to lose the reputation of "Just my friend" or "Oh...he's like a brother to me"

I seem to be getting this general reputation even though I am continually getting IOIs and it is really frustrating me.

Still a virgin :(....yet all my friends aren't.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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faiNt`

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Unless she tells you, don't stop. You can't be blamed for being a guy and being attracted to a girl, so unless she tells you, you didn't know, am I right?

If she LJBFs you then either ..

Blow her off saying, "No thanks, I have enough friends."

or

"Duh, we're just friends!" then have her get her friends to meet you etc
 
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faiNt` said:
Unless she tells you, don't stop. You can't be blamed for being a guy and being attracted to a girl, so unless she tells you, you didn't know, am I right?

If she LJBFs you then either ..

Blow her off saying, "No thanks, I have enough friends."

or

"Duh, we're just friends!" then have her get her friends to meet you etc
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Alright, sounds like a good plan.

We'll see if we can't physically escalate with some kino routines (which i have been lacking) and if that doesn't work out im gonna straight up ask her to introduce me to her friends. :)
 
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