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LJBF - Even with constant IOIs

jdawgmcb

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It seems that an hB8 that I have been gaming for the last few weeks wants to pull the "LJBF" card (not directly, but i see her trying to get with other guys) and i need to know what to do from here.

I have a few options.

a) Accept her "friendship" and hope she introduces me to other HBs
b) Blow her off completely
c) Try one more time to physically escalate, if IOIs are still visible.

The only problem for me is that since it is high school, if i make her mad, it could possibly hurt my chances with other (and hotter) HBs.

What can we do to lose the reputation of "Just my friend" or "Oh...he's like a brother to me"

I seem to be getting this general reputation even though I am continually getting IOIs and it is really frustrating me.

Still a virgin :(....yet all my friends aren't.
 

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faiNt`

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Unless she tells you, don't stop. You can't be blamed for being a guy and being attracted to a girl, so unless she tells you, you didn't know, am I right?

If she LJBFs you then either ..

Blow her off saying, "No thanks, I have enough friends."

or

"Duh, we're just friends!" then have her get her friends to meet you etc
 

jdawgmcb

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faiNt` said:
Unless she tells you, don't stop. You can't be blamed for being a guy and being attracted to a girl, so unless she tells you, you didn't know, am I right?

If she LJBFs you then either ..

Blow her off saying, "No thanks, I have enough friends."

or

"Duh, we're just friends!" then have her get her friends to meet you etc
Alright, sounds like a good plan.

We'll see if we can't physically escalate with some kino routines (which i have been lacking) and if that doesn't work out im gonna straight up ask her to introduce me to her friends. :)
 
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