"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KingPinp

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Hello folks,

I use to be on the board a lot an I mostly read rather then post. I been out in the field trying new tactics. Here is one i developed recently to deal with a chick that LJBFs you because the most common thread on here is how do i get her after she made me a friend.

Background.

I met a girl in a coffee shop, we started hanging out. its intimate but she is holding back because she is still dealing with her ex. After our third hang out, she lays it on me. Hey, i wonna know if you can be my friend. What do we do at this all to familiar point?

The Strategy:

You make fun of her about wanting to be your friend and continue being flirty. You treat it like the most ridiculous thing you ever heard.

In texts and IMS you refer to her as friendo, amigo and such. When u r texting, ask for things like a really friendly back rub later. Or can you come and tuck me in in a really friendly way.

you get the idea. If you do it right, she will break.

Best of luck
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thats a pretty good approach. Tell her yeah we can be friends, naked friends.
 
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