"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KingPinp

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Hello folks,

I use to be on the board a lot an I mostly read rather then post. I been out in the field trying new tactics. Here is one i developed recently to deal with a chick that LJBFs you because the most common thread on here is how do i get her after she made me a friend.

Background.

I met a girl in a coffee shop, we started hanging out. its intimate but she is holding back because she is still dealing with her ex. After our third hang out, she lays it on me. Hey, i wonna know if you can be my friend. What do we do at this all to familiar point?

The Strategy:

You make fun of her about wanting to be your friend and continue being flirty. You treat it like the most ridiculous thing you ever heard.

In texts and IMS you refer to her as friendo, amigo and such. When u r texting, ask for things like a really friendly back rub later. Or can you come and tuck me in in a really friendly way.

you get the idea. If you do it right, she will break.

Best of luck
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Real_Deal

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Thats a pretty good approach. Tell her yeah we can be friends, naked friends.
 
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