"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Living Without a Girl In Your Life.How to handle it?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
not true..
a women makes your life better in everyway..if she is a good women for you.
but you dont need one until you are ready for it.
also she cant be your life..but just something u care for in your life.
EX: friends, family, hobbies, passions.
you just care in a diff way, more protective way
You are gettin it man. I've always been the same way until I left my fiance and moved half way across the country. Now I concentrate on improving every aspect of my life. Once you improve your life women will notice. You will actually have to work to keep them out of your life(I don't suggest this). You need to have the mindset of wanting a woman, not needing a woman. When you feel that, things will fall into place.
Also, being needy usually leads to being lonely. Stop it!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
dont ever settle for the sake of not wanting to be alone.
live your life and dont let life live you.
when you find the path you are going to travel, the right partner will come along.
if one day, you find she is not the right one for you, simply part ways and continue life's journies . life is about learning, so get out there and do it.
learn at least one thing from everyone you date, and teach them one thing also, for this is the way that experience is learned and lived.
johnny_dangerously
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Just remember, essentially every thing you try and get or try to own serves the same purpose. To fill some sort of void in your life. By all means shower care and attention on your prized possessions. If it breaks, go get a new one. It's only harder with girls because it seems harder to get a new girl. With everything else you own, you just dump the cash on it and it's yours. And so what happens when you don't have the means to get what you want? You live with it. You learn how to live within your means.
Girls, cars, gadgets and gizmos. They're all the same. Just another extension and experience in your life. Get them, use them and treat them well. But since girls are human beings, you've got to be mindful.