"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Living Without a Girl In Your Life.How to handle it?
- Thread starter NoMoreAFC
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
not true..
a women makes your life better in everyway..if she is a good women for you.
but you dont need one until you are ready for it.
also she cant be your life..but just something u care for in your life.
EX: friends, family, hobbies, passions.
you just care in a diff way, more protective way
You are gettin it man. I've always been the same way until I left my fiance and moved half way across the country. Now I concentrate on improving every aspect of my life. Once you improve your life women will notice. You will actually have to work to keep them out of your life(I don't suggest this). You need to have the mindset of wanting a woman, not needing a woman. When you feel that, things will fall into place.
Also, being needy usually leads to being lonely. Stop it!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
dont ever settle for the sake of not wanting to be alone.
live your life and dont let life live you.
when you find the path you are going to travel, the right partner will come along.
if one day, you find she is not the right one for you, simply part ways and continue life's journies . life is about learning, so get out there and do it.
learn at least one thing from everyone you date, and teach them one thing also, for this is the way that experience is learned and lived.
johnny_dangerously
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Just remember, essentially every thing you try and get or try to own serves the same purpose. To fill some sort of void in your life. By all means shower care and attention on your prized possessions. If it breaks, go get a new one. It's only harder with girls because it seems harder to get a new girl. With everything else you own, you just dump the cash on it and it's yours. And so what happens when you don't have the means to get what you want? You live with it. You learn how to live within your means.
Girls, cars, gadgets and gizmos. They're all the same. Just another extension and experience in your life. Get them, use them and treat them well. But since girls are human beings, you've got to be mindful.