"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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living with my parents...

john_1234

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I'm in my late twenties and I live with my parents. I could still pull average girls. They don't seem to mind. But when it comes to the hot girls, it seems the fact that I live with my parents turns them off. Just recently, I was having a phone conversation with a hot girl I approached at Target. When she found out I was living with my parents, she got turned off by that. And this is the third time something like this has happened. It seems the average girls don't care while the hot girls have higher standards.
I'm aware this is a limiting belief. I know of some other guy who lives with his parents (he's actually in his early thirties) and he's able to pull hot girls. His parents are open and don't care when the hotties sleep over at the pad. But my parents are conservative and wouldn't allow sleepovers.
Is there anyone out there who is around my age and can still pull hot chicks? If so, any advice would be appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Alright,

A.) Why are you still living with your convservative parents anyway?

B.) Why do you even give these girls the occasion to know that you do live at home? You ought to be tapping them at their place as a matter of policy.
 

speedo_meme

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yeah dude, get your own place, quit mooching off mama and daddy
 

PoloBlue

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because women see it as a sign of weakness...

they want a man that can fend for himself, they want a self sufficient man, a good provider, a grown man living with his parents also makes you look like a mamma's boy.

but it also depends on what your ethnic or cultural background is?

because with some cultures, it is common for unmarried men to still live with the family, like Italians, asians also tend to help their parents or live with an eldely parent.
 

Chrispy

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Don't let it bother you. Showing or being bothered by it in itself is a weakness. You have your reasons. As long as you have a goal (like saving $$ so you can buy a house or something in xx years) if they don't respect you for that, too bad for them!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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