"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Living with a HPD

Hydrak

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http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/histrionic-personality-disorder

I recently became aware of the above and realised that pretty much everything is applied to my partner.

We moved in together just a while ago, reason being I needed to save $. However, her behaviour has starting to annoy the hell out of me, she's constantly looking for attention and creating random drama out of nowhere.
I applied the "silent treatment" to her a few days ago for a full 24 hrs after she behaved inappropriately and that set her off. Since then she hasn't been the same and tries to look for attention elsewhere. The funny part is, when I did use the silent treatment she started flipping after a few hours and craved attention so badly she made up stuff like - "what the hell did you do with the painting", "why the **** did you move my keys".

I realise it was regretful of me to move in with a HPD (I wasn't aware at first), but I needed to save $. I won't dump her because I have 8 months until I finished my college degree and I can't afford messing up my economy.

Even though we live together I usually sit in the working room and we rarely talk to eachother during the day. I only call and text 1-2 times a week. The less attention I give her the more crazy she gets basically. When she tries to create drama I just ignore her.

What is the most successful way of dealing with a HPD to make her more attached to me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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VladPatton

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Basically, you're putting money and college before your mental well-being. Good luck with that! How the hell are you not afraid of sleeping in the same place as her? See Jodi Arias case.
 
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