Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Living with a HPD

Hydrak

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http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/histrionic-personality-disorder

I recently became aware of the above and realised that pretty much everything is applied to my partner.

We moved in together just a while ago, reason being I needed to save $. However, her behaviour has starting to annoy the hell out of me, she's constantly looking for attention and creating random drama out of nowhere.
I applied the "silent treatment" to her a few days ago for a full 24 hrs after she behaved inappropriately and that set her off. Since then she hasn't been the same and tries to look for attention elsewhere. The funny part is, when I did use the silent treatment she started flipping after a few hours and craved attention so badly she made up stuff like - "what the hell did you do with the painting", "why the **** did you move my keys".

I realise it was regretful of me to move in with a HPD (I wasn't aware at first), but I needed to save $. I won't dump her because I have 8 months until I finished my college degree and I can't afford messing up my economy.

Even though we live together I usually sit in the working room and we rarely talk to eachother during the day. I only call and text 1-2 times a week. The less attention I give her the more crazy she gets basically. When she tries to create drama I just ignore her.

What is the most successful way of dealing with a HPD to make her more attached to me?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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VladPatton

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Basically, you're putting money and college before your mental well-being. Good luck with that! How the hell are you not afraid of sleeping in the same place as her? See Jodi Arias case.
 
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