"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Living like James Bond

Guitar_Whizz

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So we all know that James Bond is the ultimate Don Juan male. He has the lifestyle, the charm, the suaveness....and women love him.

Now there is an ebook that teaches men how to live like James Bond. It teaches men to live the James Bond lifestyle, has anyone read it and is it work the money? It's www.livinglikebond.com
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kingy said:
unfortunately james bond wouldnt get laid much, his value is not personality based, hes dry, lacking humour, slow, doesn't chat enough.
I tend to agree. Watch a few Bond movies. The reason Bond gets all these women is because it's scripted that way. The women are just written to fall all over him, usually he doesn't even have to do anything. How does that make for a useful role model?

I think the most useful thing to take from watching Bond is his smooth, slow, confident, relaxed movements, Sean Connery especially. If there's anything to emulate, it would be that, and only when the occassion calls for it. That and how he doesn't get oneitis (depending on the movie).
 
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