"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Living in Los Angeles

DanielT

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Hello, I've been playing with the idea of moving for awhile, but have made some excuses for not pursuing this sooner. Currently the only thing holding me back is a job at an insurance company and some debt (which is not a whole lot when I think about it.) My interests have been in Computer Animation and Special Effects. The problem is I can't find a job where I live in this field without moving to NY or LA; hence the insurance job.

I've decided to pull up stakes and move out to LA in January. So what are some areas I should check out for living arrangements?
Areas around LA within a 1 or 2 hour commute are also of interest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So Many Ways

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As you probably know, the cost of living in Southern California is pretty high so get a good idea of what you can afford to pay for rent. You may want to go with a roommate situation if you don't have $900 plus a month for a studio/1BR lying around. I'm guessing that you're going to find work in the Hollywood or Burbank area, since that's where many of the major studios are located so you don't want to live too far from that area. Traffic in LA is a mothaf*cka and a 20 mile drive takes over an hour in rush hour traffic.
 

NewMan

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Burbank is a great place to live - Rent is expensive. Expect to pay around $900 for a studio - $1200 1 bedrm.....

But your over the hill from Hollywood - bars clubs etc.

Look at Burbank - or Glendale which is a little cheaper.
 

mongoose01

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i've been thinking of moving out there too. a couple of my buddies have moved out there and it seems things are looking up.

i hear the cost of living is high, but that's okay. i live in cleveland and supposely the cost of living is low, but everyone i know is broke. i'd rather be broke in l.a. in c-town we pay high for different things such as seasonal appropiate(sp) clothing, drycleaning type of crap (services), insurance (because of weather), and rent isn't all that much lower. a decent place not in the hood is gonna cost ya 700.00-800.00.
 

Good_ol_boy

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
phahahahahaha
I hate Los Angeles. A-hole drivers, run down city, a ton of smog. I'd suggest the San Diego area (I live in North County) or Orange County.
DUDE!!! Shhhhhhh! There's already too many people here!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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big_jeffry

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good job bud, you know how the saying goes "to live and die in L.A. is the place to be, got to be there to know it, everybody wants to see"
 
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