"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Living by a college town

crossboss

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Hi,

I am 26 years old, and I live by a college town. I'd like to still meet girls, however I am getting old. How can you meet girls when you get older?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GreatHornedOwl

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lol, come on man you've been on this site for 5 years and you're asking how to meet girls?
 

crossboss

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I know

I know where to meet girls:

1. Bars
2. Night Clubs,
3. Fraternity parties
4. Coffee shops

The problem is finding girls that are in my age range...

The fact that I am above college age (normal 18-22) means, gaming college kids may not be good. So I am not sure if I should continue to go to Night clubs...Or find another way to meet people. Eventually when you get too old, it is creepy, to find young girls.
 

PapiChulo

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Nah bull crap, 26 is just fine. I am 25 and still in school, I see a lot of women and men that are in mid 20s or even older. Needless to say,there are not that many 21-22 year olds in their final year, here in Vancouver.
These *****es dig men older than them, because we have better incomes and experience and comparing to me, some of the younger students look "boyish" whereas I appear mature. All I heard from the peers is that I do appear to be the older end of the student "body", so to speak.
 
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