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Living at home with parents is possibly hurting my game.

T-Mack

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I don’t make enough money working part-time to move out because I’m going to college full time. I would suggest going to her place but I’ve never gotten laid that way with the past few girls I’ve tried this on. Another thing was when a girl asks where you live? I've noticed when I say that I live at home with the parents that some girls stop acting interested in me. Anyone have any ****y funny jokes to respond to "where you live" and tips for scoring lays if you don’t like bringing a girl back to your place for obvious reasons.
 

AmpleReason

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I think the main issue now is that you've clearly thought about it a lot and as a result will be subconciously in the back of your mind when you go out to chat to women. That little niggle where you think "Wow, this is starting to go somewhere. But where will we go? Damn"
It could even get to a point where you stop even asking girls back because you know what the outcome will be. You need to move out or change your mind set right away.

There are loads of ways to get passed this, you could simply say that your house is off limits because of building work. Though always be aware that lies like this will come back to bite you in the arse if you plan to see her again.

Or do what I do (which in my case is true) I simply say that I saved up a load of money to go travelling and only just recently got back, but I had such a wild time that I spent all my money and now just living back at home until I can afford to get my own place again. Women will accept it because you've done something lifechanging and inspired but as a result have to put up with the olds for a while.

Truth is, if you really make her like you then she won't give a crap where you guys go.
 

T-Mack

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I see what you are saying when she doesn't care where you go if she likes you. This usually doesn't happen until after I get the first lay in and have her hooked.

The last girl I was laying I did bring her back to my parents house for the first lay but I hated doing it. I also never told her I lived with my parents until we were on the way driving back to my house and she laughed because she thought I had my own place and I still managed to pull off the deed. It was really a last resort at the time because she also had a roomate and they shared a room together so we couldn't do it at her place.

For the most part we ended up doing it at her place the majority of the time when her roomate wasn't home and she could scream all she wanted too but not at my parents place :( I had to tell her to try to keep quiet.

I like your idea about saving up lots of money and spending it on trips because that really is the case for me and the reason why I am broke the majority of the time. I'll have to work on changing my mindset as well by not letting the fact that I don't have my own place stop me from getting what I want from the ladies.
 

MisterMcGee

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I don't drive. I have my g1 (can drive with someone who has their full license).
I'm 19.


It hurts my confidence... but, really, I'm doing fine. I'll get my license soon as soon as spring comes around. Just don't act like it'll never change
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Honestly, I still live with my parents cause, of some job issues and this crappy economy... I Just turned 21 almost a month ago. Your not the only one still living with your parents. Some of my good friends who always had a steady job got laid off and cant afford to move out and ect

Don't be Ashamed of it. Now, If your parents are chill (like mine). I can just take a girl in my bedroom. Turn some music on and fvck her. Most of the girls I've layed at my house did not even care.
 

Following_of_Me

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There's no shame in living with your parents and commuting to school. It's because you feel like living with your parents still makes you inferior in some way, that girls are reacting this way. In some way, you are projecting onto them inferiority because you are embarrassed to still be living at home. Don't make a big deal out of it and neither will they.
 

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haha this is me too

Well i have layed quite a few girls at my house. Good thing to know that im not the only one who feels slightly stupid.....you just gotta man up and do it though....Im 22 and graduate in a year....im saving to move out next year and buy a house, so living with them seems logical, if a girl doesnt understand, then she has issues
 
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