I don’t make enough money working part-time to move out because I’m going to college full time. I would suggest going to her place but I’ve never gotten laid that way with the past few girls I’ve tried this on. Another thing was when a girl asks where you live? I've noticed when I say that I live at home with the parents that some girls stop acting interested in me. Anyone have any ****y funny jokes to respond to "where you live" and tips for scoring lays if you don’t like bringing a girl back to your place for obvious reasons.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Living at home with parents is possibly hurting my game.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AmpleReason
Don Juan
I think the main issue now is that you've clearly thought about it a lot and as a result will be subconciously in the back of your mind when you go out to chat to women. That little niggle where you think "Wow, this is starting to go somewhere. But where will we go? Damn"
It could even get to a point where you stop even asking girls back because you know what the outcome will be. You need to move out or change your mind set right away.
There are loads of ways to get passed this, you could simply say that your house is off limits because of building work. Though always be aware that lies like this will come back to bite you in the arse if you plan to see her again.
Or do what I do (which in my case is true) I simply say that I saved up a load of money to go travelling and only just recently got back, but I had such a wild time that I spent all my money and now just living back at home until I can afford to get my own place again. Women will accept it because you've done something lifechanging and inspired but as a result have to put up with the olds for a while.
Truth is, if you really make her like you then she won't give a crap where you guys go.
It could even get to a point where you stop even asking girls back because you know what the outcome will be. You need to move out or change your mind set right away.
There are loads of ways to get passed this, you could simply say that your house is off limits because of building work. Though always be aware that lies like this will come back to bite you in the arse if you plan to see her again.
Or do what I do (which in my case is true) I simply say that I saved up a load of money to go travelling and only just recently got back, but I had such a wild time that I spent all my money and now just living back at home until I can afford to get my own place again. Women will accept it because you've done something lifechanging and inspired but as a result have to put up with the olds for a while.
Truth is, if you really make her like you then she won't give a crap where you guys go.
I see what you are saying when she doesn't care where you go if she likes you. This usually doesn't happen until after I get the first lay in and have her hooked.
The last girl I was laying I did bring her back to my parents house for the first lay but I hated doing it. I also never told her I lived with my parents until we were on the way driving back to my house and she laughed because she thought I had my own place and I still managed to pull off the deed. It was really a last resort at the time because she also had a roomate and they shared a room together so we couldn't do it at her place.
For the most part we ended up doing it at her place the majority of the time when her roomate wasn't home and she could scream all she wanted too but not at my parents place
I had to tell her to try to keep quiet.
I like your idea about saving up lots of money and spending it on trips because that really is the case for me and the reason why I am broke the majority of the time. I'll have to work on changing my mindset as well by not letting the fact that I don't have my own place stop me from getting what I want from the ladies.
The last girl I was laying I did bring her back to my parents house for the first lay but I hated doing it. I also never told her I lived with my parents until we were on the way driving back to my house and she laughed because she thought I had my own place and I still managed to pull off the deed. It was really a last resort at the time because she also had a roomate and they shared a room together so we couldn't do it at her place.
For the most part we ended up doing it at her place the majority of the time when her roomate wasn't home and she could scream all she wanted too but not at my parents place
I had to tell her to try to keep quiet. I like your idea about saving up lots of money and spending it on trips because that really is the case for me and the reason why I am broke the majority of the time. I'll have to work on changing my mindset as well by not letting the fact that I don't have my own place stop me from getting what I want from the ladies.
MisterMcGee
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I don't drive. I have my g1 (can drive with someone who has their full license).
I'm 19.
It hurts my confidence... but, really, I'm doing fine. I'll get my license soon as soon as spring comes around. Just don't act like it'll never change
I'm 19.
It hurts my confidence... but, really, I'm doing fine. I'll get my license soon as soon as spring comes around. Just don't act like it'll never change
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Honestly, I still live with my parents cause, of some job issues and this crappy economy... I Just turned 21 almost a month ago. Your not the only one still living with your parents. Some of my good friends who always had a steady job got laid off and cant afford to move out and ect
Don't be Ashamed of it. Now, If your parents are chill (like mine). I can just take a girl in my bedroom. Turn some music on and fvck her. Most of the girls I've layed at my house did not even care.
Don't be Ashamed of it. Now, If your parents are chill (like mine). I can just take a girl in my bedroom. Turn some music on and fvck her. Most of the girls I've layed at my house did not even care.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Following_of_Me
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There's no shame in living with your parents and commuting to school. It's because you feel like living with your parents still makes you inferior in some way, that girls are reacting this way. In some way, you are projecting onto them inferiority because you are embarrassed to still be living at home. Don't make a big deal out of it and neither will they.
haha this is me too
Well i have layed quite a few girls at my house. Good thing to know that im not the only one who feels slightly stupid.....you just gotta man up and do it though....Im 22 and graduate in a year....im saving to move out next year and buy a house, so living with them seems logical, if a girl doesnt understand, then she has issues
Well i have layed quite a few girls at my house. Good thing to know that im not the only one who feels slightly stupid.....you just gotta man up and do it though....Im 22 and graduate in a year....im saving to move out next year and buy a house, so living with them seems logical, if a girl doesnt understand, then she has issues