"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Living at home: what is the best way to invite myself back to her place?

viking22

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Ive had a few dates with this Latin girl and things got pretty steamy on the second date: french kissing, clinches, copulatory gazing etc and it looks like it is on.

The only problem is that Ive moved back home as my finances took a hit with the recession. She lives with a flatmate but I get the impression her friends' approval is very important to her and would worry about inviting a guy over she'd just met.

Hotel is also an option but she might think it is a bit sleazy.

So im trying to come up with a game plan to get back to hers this weekend.

Ive come up with two ideas and would like some feedback

1) Meet up somewhere neutral like a bar or a restaurant and then midway through the date say I feel like a quiet night in and suggest going back to hers and watching a movie.

2) Meeting up late at night, going to a bar and then when the bar closes say something like "Is there somewhere else we can go, where we can be alone?" and hope she reads between the lines.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

everywomanshero

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**** her in your car. Just park somewhere that no cars really go down. You might even consider renting a drive in storage unit if your area is a densely populated city. Much cheaper than a motel
 
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