"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Living at home: what is the best way to invite myself back to her place?

viking22

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Ive had a few dates with this Latin girl and things got pretty steamy on the second date: french kissing, clinches, copulatory gazing etc and it looks like it is on.

The only problem is that Ive moved back home as my finances took a hit with the recession. She lives with a flatmate but I get the impression her friends' approval is very important to her and would worry about inviting a guy over she'd just met.

Hotel is also an option but she might think it is a bit sleazy.

So im trying to come up with a game plan to get back to hers this weekend.

Ive come up with two ideas and would like some feedback

1) Meet up somewhere neutral like a bar or a restaurant and then midway through the date say I feel like a quiet night in and suggest going back to hers and watching a movie.

2) Meeting up late at night, going to a bar and then when the bar closes say something like "Is there somewhere else we can go, where we can be alone?" and hope she reads between the lines.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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everywomanshero

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**** her in your car. Just park somewhere that no cars really go down. You might even consider renting a drive in storage unit if your area is a densely populated city. Much cheaper than a motel
 
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