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Living at home: what is the best way to invite myself back to her place?

viking22

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Ive had a few dates with this Latin girl and things got pretty steamy on the second date: french kissing, clinches, copulatory gazing etc and it looks like it is on.

The only problem is that Ive moved back home as my finances took a hit with the recession. She lives with a flatmate but I get the impression her friends' approval is very important to her and would worry about inviting a guy over she'd just met.

Hotel is also an option but she might think it is a bit sleazy.

So im trying to come up with a game plan to get back to hers this weekend.

Ive come up with two ideas and would like some feedback

1) Meet up somewhere neutral like a bar or a restaurant and then midway through the date say I feel like a quiet night in and suggest going back to hers and watching a movie.

2) Meeting up late at night, going to a bar and then when the bar closes say something like "Is there somewhere else we can go, where we can be alone?" and hope she reads between the lines.
 

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everywomanshero

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**** her in your car. Just park somewhere that no cars really go down. You might even consider renting a drive in storage unit if your area is a densely populated city. Much cheaper than a motel
 
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