"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Living among our means, what happens when u date a hb9

Who Dares Win

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This is not a field report, I'll probably open an other thread later to ask feedback about how to deal with something which is in fact above my means.

Anyway a short feedback, late 20s 5'11 athletic but nothing that turns head around while fully dressed, being a zero most of my life and managed to fix it up by grabbing my balls and saying enough that I would have done anything in my power whatever the cost, my confidence comes from the fact that I got what I wasnt suppose to get,that I escaped from the prison built on me but somehow still suffer from my past condition sometime, I may say a 7 in look and a 8 in personality (as if any girl give a fvck if u dont pass the look test).

So you can imagine how clubbing is for me, going there either with friends or alone, approaching girls to be either blown away right after or chasing them for a good half a hour before see if something could come out of them or not... some girl may approach me (below 6) some girl may stay close to me to invite me to approach (hb6-7) others are hard clients (hb8+).

Ok well now imagine that out of ability, fate and luck I manage to have an hb9 to go out with me, and take her to the club where we both go heavy on alchool till our inhibitions disappear, well let me tell you guys you go from zero to hero near yourself and to all others.
I spoke about her many times here in an year span, had "dates" with her sometimes although she is not exactly "available".

First of all you feel like you're playing in god mode when the bouncers or the bar speak to you but cant help to quickly look at her before returning to you, the girls that in any other day were consciuosly doing their best to avoid eye contact, now stare at the two of you while you kiss and rub each other.

Not sure if its an allucination but I could say that even on the dance floor people were making space to us, and the girls were pointing their chest toward us and not doing anything to pretend that "they dont care or they're having fun by themselves".

I spare you the details of the other dirty things we did, but the point is that its really unbelievable how it feels to move from zero to hero even when you're conscious that such situation in that moment is above your means.

I cant really blame those guys who cheat, trick or even commit crimes to have a taste of that, I guess there's no chemical that can reproduce such sensation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nope I usually date hb 6-7 and nothing like that ever happened, I guess the best benchmark is when girls around become blue colored out of envy for someone of a better stock than them.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I spare you the details of the other dirty things we did, but the point is that its really unbelievable how it feels to move from zero to hero even when you're conscious that such situation in that moment is above your means.

I cant really blame those guys who cheat, trick or even commit crimes to have a taste of that, I guess there's no chemical that can reproduce such sensation.
I've been there and I know what you mean, it can be quite a rush. You can call it preselection, but the unfortunate truth is that they are merely lending you their value (unless you're a celebrity or incredibly wealthy). In other words, as you inferred, the reason all eyes are on you is because she is so hot. The tradeoff is that her value is fleeting, her looks will fade. The value you have will remain, or even increase.
 

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Maybe it's just your generation. Bouncers, woman-on-woman dancers giving lezbo attention to your date, etc., are pretty much sordid squalor and low-life nightlife stuff. Congratulations for fvcking a HB9, but really, if she goes to such places, she's the sort of trash that you're supposed to be screening out of your life.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good post OP, I'd like to hear more about experiences from people who normally date 6s (as do we all) and the times when they went out with 8s and up.

I dated a Brazilian HB8.5 for a couple of weeks back in 2008. This was before I limited my dating to chicks who would put out on the first date. We went out 4-5 times before she put out and she was so terrible in the sack that I had to dump her. Major disappointment.

But in that time we went out and did stuff in public and I was always in a completely different mood with her vis-a-vis the 5s and 6s I normally go out with. I literally would look around and think, "My girl is the hottest girl in the room." Guys would check her out and then check me out. I actually felt like guys were checking me out more than girls, strangely. As if they were thinking, "Who's this guy to get a girl like that?"

We played pool one time and I remember that I would be concentrating on my shot, and then after taking the shot I'd look up and feel a little spurt of excitement when I saw her again. Like "Oh wow, that's right, she's really hot." Even after taking my eyes off her for just a minute, the pleasure of seeing her again made my heart skip a beat.

The interesting thing was that she had a number of Brazilian girlfriends who were just as hot as she was. They all had boyfriends and I went out once as a group with them. I felt like I was finally one of the popular kids because we were the most attractive group of people at the bar we went to. The guys were all taller and better looking than I was by far. Nice guys though. Totally made me feel like I was welcomed.

It was an interesting situation and one I won't soon forget.
 
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