I am living with my GF yea I know that can lead to some problems but anyways we got in a big fight cause of some stupid sh*t. Im kind of mad ive been with her over a year roughly and things are usually ok but she just fvcks up sometimes like doing really idiotic things like being real flirty. Thats just the way she is though. It just got to me this time though. She wasnt kissing or anything but she and this guy she messed around with before like a while ago had their around each other (standing side by side) she saw me walk up and she all of the sudden got away from him then I walked away again and she did the same thing. So I let her know what was up and got pissed. Maybe it was innocent considering they were wasted and I was pretty buzzed. Im still kind of mad right now. she said she was sorry but still. I almost want to end everything with her. But then I want to stay with her. How do you fix problems like this when you live with a GF?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
live with GF and got in a big fight what do you do to fix it?
- Thread starter MKS82
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
when i was living with my g/f whenever we got in a fight, it was her fault... not mine. she always gave in first and to this day she still loves me even though we no longer live together.
its her problem to deal with if you got in a fight. not yours
its her problem to deal with if you got in a fight. not yours
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Jealousy is the kiss of death!
Women are attracted to power. Powerful people are not jealous, because they have everything they want. Never display jealosy to a woman - they are the catty jealous ones, not us.
The next time it happens, tell them they make a cute couple. Make it no big deal (you have to believe it first).
Women are attracted to power. Powerful people are not jealous, because they have everything they want. Never display jealosy to a woman - they are the catty jealous ones, not us.
The next time it happens, tell them they make a cute couple. Make it no big deal (you have to believe it first).
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
If you were smart you'd dump her and not look back. This girl has zero integrity. If a girl pulled this sh1t on me her azz would be out the door. Do not tolerate any disrespect from any woman.
Just make it clear to her that it is disrespectful for her to be hanging on any other guy if she is in a relationship with you and that if she behaves like that again you're not going to stay in a relationship with her. Then if she does it again, dump her.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
izza
Master Don Juan
MKS,
Let me ask you this. Say you had a fantastic day, that all of a sudden your career took a turn for the better, you had spent a lot of time with friends, and you were regularly having phenomenal sex with this GF of yours, as well as regularly feeling a spiritual connection to this girl. Would this GF of yours standing next to some ex bother you at all?
I sincerely hope not! You have the right to be angry, even if it's really not a big deal - it feels like it's a big deal, I'm sure! All I'm saying is, if things were going different in your life, you wouldn't care. If she apologized, as long as she isn't cheating that is the end of her responsibility. That you're still angry about it is your responsibility. Go out with friends, have a good time, you'll feel better and have more perspective.
David
Let me ask you this. Say you had a fantastic day, that all of a sudden your career took a turn for the better, you had spent a lot of time with friends, and you were regularly having phenomenal sex with this GF of yours, as well as regularly feeling a spiritual connection to this girl. Would this GF of yours standing next to some ex bother you at all?
I sincerely hope not! You have the right to be angry, even if it's really not a big deal - it feels like it's a big deal, I'm sure! All I'm saying is, if things were going different in your life, you wouldn't care. If she apologized, as long as she isn't cheating that is the end of her responsibility. That you're still angry about it is your responsibility. Go out with friends, have a good time, you'll feel better and have more perspective.
David
NewMan
Master Don Juan
He would and SHOULD care.
There are several ways these kinds of situations can go:
Either you act like a pvssy and she begins to lose all respect for you, and this behaviour continues (for if this is how she acts when you are around, how do you think she acts when your not around?). If she see's that you think this is no big deal, she will continue to fratanize with the enemy.
You act like a crazy mother fvcker - get insecure and jealous - which will also deem the end fo your relationship
You can step up to the plate and lay down the law. You tell her what you expect from her - reiterate it, then ask her "Do you UNDERSTAND?" . If she does not understand or agree you leave.
Of course, you could also go find a chick that isn't a Attention Ho.
Why would you tolerate her hanging off of a guy who C#ck she's sucked?
