“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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RedPill

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This forum has posters from all over the world, and from all walks of life.

The diversity here is amazing. We are all at different stages of life with different schedules. We have different attitudes, beliefs, and skill sets.

The only way anyone here would possibly consider actually reserving time out of their personal life to contribute to a real-time discussion is if there were genuinely productive and valuable conversations taking place. This "Cheers"-esque 'place to drop by where everybody knows your name' thing is a worthless cause and a waste of time.

So instead of trying to come up with some magic ideal time that's centric to the schedules of the guys with careers and the guys in school across a dozen different time zones, let's cover first things first to see if the idea of a live chat even makes sense. Unless people are willing to show some leadership and contribute to meaningful topics that have real-world utility, nobody will participate. I think the challenge here is that having such discussions would require a requisite level of maturity that is infrequently demonstrated on this forum. I would love to be proven wrong, however.

Let's hear some feedback.

What different topics (within the conceptual realm of sosuave) would interest *you* to the point of participation?

For example, here are some topics I think would make for compelling real-time discussions:
* Living a masculine lifestyle in a feminized culture​
* Value vs. marketability as they relate to sexual dynamics​

What do you think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mpimpin

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Personally I have to agree with Redpill. I'm not sure that a specific time could be set. It could work with a handful of people that could do it maybe.
 

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I agree. Im in Australia, and a student (so I have bizzare and irregular sleeping patterns), so it would be quite unlikely I would be able to participate in the live chat.
However, I am extremely interested in the 'living a masculine life in a femenized world' topics, as well as many other DJ, topics that only we as DJ's can discuss.
Hence, I propose that we do in fact set a time for the discussion to take place, but we take a transcipt of the conversation, in an easy to read format, and make it available on the forums, for the rest of us.

The live chat is an excellent idea, as the synergistic effect of being able to bounce ideas off one another instantly will no doubt shed some light on at least some topics
 

penkitten

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i purpose we meet on sunday nights at 10 eastern time .
topic is myth of a quality woman from our mature man forum.
please come :)
 

Ken785

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MAN, I HOPE THIS CHAT KICKS OFF SOON!! LET EVERYONE KNOW!! i know everyones tired of posting threads when they just have a small question or story they wanna tell...why not get instant opinions and answers from other members??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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penkitten

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we will be meeting tonight ( sunday nights at 10 eastern time) .
topic is myth of a quality woman from our mature man forum.
please come :)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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penkitten said:
we will be meeting tonight ( sunday nights at 10 eastern time) .
topic is myth of a quality woman from our mature man forum.
please come :)
Here's another suggestion (I have a lot of them even though I've yet been able to make a chat), could a mod or admin check into fixing the calendar function so that things can be scheduled after 12/31/2006? Chat organizers could then post a public schedule; maybe there could be an automatic notification to forum members when things are added.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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penkitten

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update:
i think we have come up with something that will be helpful to all the people that want to be a part of chat nights.
if you will pm me with your email addy...(they will be kept confidential between redpill and i )
i will compile a list of everyone and then whenever we set discussion topics and dates/times, i can mass mail them to everyone, so that way everyone knows ahead of time.
this will be a good way to indicate that there will be a crowd of people in there to discuss the topic chosen for the time slot, but then you can just stay and continue chatting.

the chat room is free, so it has no big whoops to it... so please do not get disappointed when you can not pm the others secretly or play sounds.

the room is also there, for any of you to meet up on your own and discuss whatever you want without scheduling anything (if you are bored) but if you want to get a crowd in there, then you will have to work for it the sosuave way. how would you do this? you would come up with a great topic and a time/date that you want to schedule it and pm me (so the invitations can get sent to all the email addys) or you may send the invites out to the people that you personally have email addys for.
remember, people are asking for a few days (3) notice on specific topics.


if you have any questions or concerns, you can address them here or feel free to pm me.
 

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This Sunday's Chat Nights Topic : An Evening with the Joekerr
11-11-07 10 pm eastern time
 
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Penkitty, I'll do next weeks topic -- I can't be at this weeks rumble --- it would be a good idea if you copy and paste all of the convo and put in a tread and then that topic could be discussed!
I
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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penkitten

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Last Man Standing said:
Penkitty, I'll do next weeks topic -- I can't be at this weeks rumble --- it would be a good idea if you copy and paste all of the convo and put in a tread and then that topic could be discussed!
I
Sunday Night Chats 11-17-07 10pm eastern Topic to be announced Led by Last Man Standing
 
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penkitten

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shouldnt be
should be no password.
let me know if you cant get in
 

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I can't. I entered my alias and then tried to enter the room. But it said, "You must enter the password to enter the room."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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